Tired of Man Bashing

I visit many pregnancy websites just to read up on topics I'm curious about or to ask questions.  A topic on the bump today was who is choosing to be a single parent.  This being a touchy subject since more women now are getting prego and not married I opted not to say anything but I think I just need to say what I wanted to say.

I'm not perfect when it comes to that whole issue but when they start bashing on men so much it's almost ridiculous to say well he found out I'm preggo and dumped me.  Why would you put yourself in the issue in the first place??? If you are not married you have to look out for yourself first! There are so many clinics with free birth control and even if you are under age are still discreet, shoots even condoms, there are so many things women can do for themselves in this day and age to prevent pregnancy before they are married.  It takes two to tango so it's not just his fault.  Makes me feel sad for those women who continually cast off blame.

in saying that it is my opinion I know is not a right or wrong issue, but that is just what I think.  Sometimes i don't even want to visit those sites anymore because the self pity, and chronic worry on the sites can make anyone depressed.  I think I just need to stay away from them for awhile and just do my own thing cause no matter what you want to know each pregnancy is different for each woman. 

hahaha I think I still just have a hard time making friends with girls!

I'm so thankful for Nik he is truly a blessing!